The Worst and Best Thing

The worst thing of having been cheated upon is that no matter how long ago was it, you still feel the insecurity from time to time. You start to wonder if you have really forgot and forgiven. If you have made the right decision. If he is still thinking of her from time to time.

The best thing about having been cheated upon though is that after the insecurity sets in, you would realize that "YOU" were the one who was chosen. That at the end of the day, you are his "The One"  - that one constant person in his life. The one he promised  "To be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life". The one he vowed "to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part."

I do not know how long this insecurity  would haunt me from time to time. One thing is for sure though, I am happy with what we are today and I intend to stay that way forever.

Our Simple Pleasures

My husband and I have our simple pleasures that the two of us enjoy without really having to spend much.

For one, we love to just eat inside our room and go Japanese dining by sitting at the floor with a very low table in front of us. Whatever our food is does not matter. We feel the intimacy just as well.

We also love to just watch movies in our laptop munching on some chips. May it be love story, chick flick, comedy, science fiction, war movies, action etc, we love to just cuddle and enjoy the presence of each other.

We love to write notes to each other. I usually put my notes in his lunchbox. When he eats lunch at the office, he is surprised to see the note. When he gets home, I would find the note still attached but with his reply.

We love to just roam around the mall holding hands.

We love to eat at a fastfood for hours and just enjoy being there talking about anything under the sun.

Since we are still new in our married life, we are still discovering other things that we both enjoy. So excited!

He chose me

Me and my ex-boyfriend for 7 yrs (my husband now) has been through a lot .

The biggest problem by far is when we were apart because he had to go abroad to work.

It took us two years before he met a woman who he was lonely enough to cheat me with.

I don't blame him... I blame the woman. He was a lonely man and having someone to tempt him is just enough to succumb to temptation. Why do I blame the woman? Because I think she is low enough to get in a relationship with someone who SHE KNOWS very well is currently involved. She might reason out that she fell in love. But for me, falling in and out of love is a CHOICE. She made a choice of going after an involved man. By choosing that, she also made a choice of hurting other people. We call that relationship wrecker. I don't really know what motivated her. Maybe she came from a very bad break-up with another man. Maybe she was dumped in favor of other woman that's why she is taking a revenge on other women. Maybe she thought dumping me would be the next move of my then boyfriend. Maybe this time, she would be the one to be chosen. Maybe she thinks she is better than me... But she doesn't know me. She doesn't know our history. And she definitely is not better than me!